- Published on Wednesday, 26 June 2013 23:05
- Written by Super User
Making Good Neighbors
At the beach, it’s likely that you will get to know your neighbors well, as we live in close proximity to one another.
Living next door to someone doesn’t make you a neighbor. It makes you the stranger next door! One of the great opportunities we have in our communities is the chance to build real, meaningful relationships with the people who live closest to us.
While I understand the desire for privacy, I think it’s important we realize that regular, helpful communication with our neighbors makes us both safer and paves a smooth road for difficult conversations we might face with our neighbors in the future.
It doesn’t take much to start off the right way. Consider leaving a nice note in their mailbox, a small “thank you” gift for looking out for the neighborhood, or some other “olive branch” act that will build rapport.
Small gestures such as a nice note about landscaping, an invitation to a potluck, or an “all hands on deck” community improvement project allow us to get to know our neighbors. This is vital when you consider the people around you are the most likely to spot smoke in a fire, clue you in to suspicious activity, and have the opportunity to share vital local information.
What’s more, if you build a positive base with your neighbors, when the time comes to have a difficult conversation (such as a nuisance dog, kids running amok, or intrusive lighting issues), you’ll have a buffer of mutual respect and goodwill to draw on.
If your opening conversation with a neighbor is a complaint, you’re setting yourself up for a long, antagonistic relationship. Who wants to live next to that?
I think a civil community depends upon our connection to our neighbors. We all benefit when we depend on and trust one another.
I love the beach and my fellow islanders. I love meeting super people – those that have deep roots on the island, as well as those that have moved here more recently from all over the country!
We all need to look out for one another, and in doing so, will make Carolina and Kure beach an ever greater place to live!
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